Monday, 3 August 2009

What is the Two-time Rule?


The Two-time Rule, simply put, is the agreement that you cannot sleep with a guy MORE than 2 times, for fear of attachment. That is; if you are dating, you probably need some further commitment from him before you sleep with him that 3rd time, if you have a F*buddy, you might need to call it off (like I would have had to with the Landscaper, as I already knew I liked him), and if you're not sure, you definitely can't go there. Please comment if you need clarification on any of these facts.

This rule was used by my girlfriends and I in our early 20's and we found that it was extremely useful and true. Although, don't get me wrong, I had a successful F*buddy over a year long back then... it's just if you ever feel like you like him a lot, or that you aren't in control in those F*buddy situations.

As I get older, I wonder if I will be the same in that I will be able to go more than that; that 2 times is really just for amateurs. On the other hand, I don't really want to be someone who can separate themselves from it sleeping with someone so much... I think they call those people Hookers. Or, maybe Cougars... :)


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