Oh so, yeah, I haven't updated my blog lately. There is one particular reason for that. I have been meatless. For a few months. OH THE PAIN. But it's ok. BECAUSE.. guess who I have begun seeing again. As in "Casually" seeing again. That's right. The Landscaper.
And we are so far in the grey area we can't even see the black or the white sides.
First, we just hooked up again a couple of weeks ago.
Second, he began messaging me again. Saying he had the house free etc.
Third, he began asking me why I wasn't inviting him to stuff.
Fourth, (after hooking up again), he began remembering little details about things I told him.
Fifth, we have spoken every day this week (except today, not that I'm trying to not think about that or anything.)
Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought someone that you met at a bar, took home, and shagged was... well... a one-night-stand. Maybe with the potential to become a F*buddy. But this? What is this?
And the problem also begins in that I have certain boundaries for different relationships. Someone I'm gonna shag randomly can maybe get away with a bit more than, say someone I'm potentially dating. Example:
L: "So, got any girlfriends who might want a threesome?"
Me (if we were dating): "I'm not that kinda girl. Deal with it."
Me (if we were just shagging): "My girlfriends and I don't like to share meat. So, got the house tonight?"
See the subtle differences? Sure the overall message is the same, but option 2, implies that I'm a little more risque compared to option 1, which is "Don't ask me that, respect me, we've just begun dating". Case and Point.
Now, where does he fall, and what boundaries to I set for him????
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